psychology

  • The Art of the Glass Box: Why I’m Learning to Let Them

    The Art of the Glass Box: Why I’m Learning to Let Them

    “All I want is to not Feel Anxious.” -Hwang Dong Man It struck a cord so hard in my ears. As I was watching We are all trying here. Because I remember telling the exact same words to my mother whenever I cry and feel miserable about living this life.I am not someone who hates this life I live. But it often fits like a force fit. I don’t enjoy the way the job sucks 12hrs out of my life. I don’t enjoy the fact that I spend time around people who I can read through but pretend like I…

  • Anti-Mirror: Power Of Words & Action

    Anti-Mirror: Power Of Words & Action

    By observing people, I realized how predictable humans are. The perk of being INFJ is that judging people at some point becomes a superpower without us realizing it. It used to be my curse because I was so not ready to use it. Or should I say, I underestimated my capabilities to judge people. I often confused my gut feeling with anxiety, ignored my warning signs, and ended up in many toxic friendships. But after embracing the power of judgment I could able to use it well to understand social cues and communication patterns among people when I finally set…