A Solivagant's Shoes

By observing people, I realized how predictable humans are. The perk of being INFJ is that judging people at some point becomes a superpower without us realizing it. It used to be my curse because I was so not ready to use it. Or should I say, I underestimated my capabilities to judge people. I often confused my gut feeling with anxiety, ignored my warning signs, and ended up in many toxic friendships. But after embracing the power of judgment I could able to use it well to understand social cues and communication patterns among people when I finally set…